Relationships are deep and dynamic. This test can capture feelings about your relationship health as it stands today. We hope the information here will help bring you closer to the goals you have for your relationship—and closer to your partner.
1. It's fine for my partner to read my personal emails with almost anyone.
2. My partner and I are a good fit.
3. What my partner doesn't know won't hurt them.
4. I think our relationship could be a good model for other couples.
5. I don't want my partner to suffer, I would prefer to suffer for them.
6. I feel distressed when I imagine my partner wanting to cheat on me.
7. I am grateful when I wake up to see my partner next to me each morning.
8. My partner and I talk about many things.
9. I enjoy just hanging out with my partner, even if we're not doing anything special.
10. I feel close to my partner.
11. I can be myself with my partner. I am free to pursue what matters most to me.
12. I feel appreciated by my partner.
13. I think of our relationship in terms of "we" and "us."
14. I feel happy in my relationship.
15. I am in my relationship long-term.
16. I worry that my partner and I have little in common.
17. My partner supports me through good and bad times.
18. My partner and I can manage problems that arise.
19. I encourage my partner to pursue their personal and professional goals.
20. My partner is the first person I'd call if something great happens in my life.