Those who fear commitment may have a strong aversion to serious or exclusive relationships.
1. The idea of making a long-term commitment makes me anxious.
2. I tend to avoid discussions related to settling down.
3. I am happiest in a long-term, committed relationship.
4. It makes me uncomfortable when others talk about long-term relationships.
5. I end relationships when they become serious.
6. I am able to reveal my vulnerabilities.
7. I generally date more than one person at a time.
8. I often feel suffocated by a partner’s romantic expectations.
9. My ideal relationship would be open, non-monogamous.
10. When I think of plans, I avoid thinking about my partner.
11. My partner tends to be the more invested person in the relationship.
12. I love the security that comes with a committed relationship.
13. I am able to express my true feelings.
14. I appreciate when my partner relies on me for emotional support.
15. It’s fine to keep secrets from my partner.
16. I think about opportunities I’ll miss if I’m in a committed relationship.
17. I avoid relationships where a partner overly relies on me emotionally.
18. I worry that it could be a mistake to commit.
19. If I’m dating someone, I prefer not to meet their family.
20. It’s fine to date a person for a while without ever discussing the relationship’s status.