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✓ 20 QUESTIONS ⏱ ~3 MINUTES

Narcissistic Partner Test

Is your partner a narcissist? People high in narcissism demand admiration, struggle to empathize with others, and often lash out when criticized—traits that make healthy relationships difficult, if not impossible. Take this test to see where your partner lands.

STRONGLY DISAGREE NEUTRAL STRONGLY AGREE

1. My partner gets angry when I don’t go along with what they want.

DISAGREE AGREE

2. When we go out, my partner seems to expect special treatment from everyone we meet.

DISAGREE AGREE

3. They often complain that their talent is going unrecognized.

DISAGREE AGREE

4. My partner is happy to share the spotlight with others.

DISAGREE AGREE

5. I feel like my partner prioritizes their feelings over mine.

DISAGREE AGREE

6. I know I can rely on my partner for emotional support.

DISAGREE AGREE

7. My partner makes every problem we encounter seem like my fault.

DISAGREE AGREE

8. My partner seems delighted when other people fail.

DISAGREE AGREE

9. Being criticized, even mildly, causes my partner to lash out.

DISAGREE AGREE

10. My partner doesn’t seem to care very much when I’m upset.

DISAGREE AGREE

11. My partner never takes responsibility when things go wrong.

DISAGREE AGREE

12. I never feel like I’m good enough for my partner.

DISAGREE AGREE

13. My partner often complains that they’re not treated as well as they deserve.

DISAGREE AGREE

14. Being famous would make my partner uncomfortable.

DISAGREE AGREE

15. They believe that only “special” people can understand them.

DISAGREE AGREE

16. My partner sulks when they feel that I’m not giving them enough attention.

DISAGREE AGREE

17. I can see that my partner manipulates others to get their way.

DISAGREE AGREE

18. They act as if rules don’t apply to them.

DISAGREE AGREE

19. When I achieve something big, my partner gets jealous.

DISAGREE AGREE

20. They can be extremely charming when they want to be.

DISAGREE AGREE