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✓ 20 QUESTIONS ⏱ ~3 MINUTES

Is Your Adult Child Stuck Test

When an adult child seems unable to take on adult responsibilities like holding onto a job, living independently or managing relationships or finances, they could be stuck or experiencing “failure to launch.” Is this a concern for your family? Try this test to find out.

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1. Does your adult child live at home—for a reason other than being in school or saving their salary to buy a home?

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2. If your adult child attended college, did they complete their degree?

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3. Does your adult child have a full-time job?

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4. If your adult child is not working, are they motivated to find work?

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5. Does your adult child manage their own finances (credit cards, checkbook, etc.)?

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6. Do you believe your adult child would be capable of managing their own household?

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7. Can you talk with your adult child as an equal adult?

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8. Could your adult child live financially independent from you?

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9. Do you believe your adult child is too emotionally dependent on you?

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10. Does your adult child accept responsibility for their actions or situation?

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11. Do you think your child is capable of committing to a long-term romantic relationship?

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12. Does your adult child pursue hobbies, passions, or volunteer opportunities?

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13. Does your adult child regularly see or talk with friends?

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14. Does your adult child struggle to stick to one plan, goal, or activity?

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15. Does your adult child appear to fear situations that might be stressful or take them out of their comfort zone?

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16. Does your adult child struggle to decide what to do next with their life?

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17. Does your adult child become overwhelmed or frustrated when they need to complete important tasks or make important decisions?

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18. Does your adult child prefer to rely on you instead of becoming more independent?

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19. Has your adult child expressed feeling stuck or frustrated?

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20. Does your adult child avoid social or family gatherings?

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