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Helicopter Parent Test

It’s important for a parent to be close to their children and know what’s happening in their lives. However, some take that involvement too far and become what are popularly known as helicopter parents. Are you one of them? Try this test to find out.

STRONGLY DISAGREE NEUTRAL STRONGLY AGREE

1. It is appropriate for a parent to step in to help a child get what they believe they deserve, no matter their age.

DISAGREE AGREE

2. I know all of my child’s homework assignments and deadlines.

DISAGREE AGREE

3. It’s important for me to be able to know where my child is at all times.

DISAGREE AGREE

4. My child and I have an equal responsibility to make them the strongest possible college applicant.

DISAGREE AGREE

5. I keep track of all of my child’s grades online and have no plans to stop.

DISAGREE AGREE

6. If I can take action to keep my child from experiencing a failure or setback, I will do it.

DISAGREE AGREE

7. It’s very important that my child feel that they are independent.

DISAGREE AGREE

8. If my child is having a lot of trouble with a school assignment, I might do part of it for them.

DISAGREE AGREE

9. A parent should do what they can to clear any potential obstacles to their child’s success.

DISAGREE AGREE

10. When my child isn’t getting along with a friend or classmate, I will call the other child’s parent to try to fix it.

DISAGREE AGREE

11. It is important to me that my kids not experience the failures and regrets that I did growing up.

DISAGREE AGREE

12. I will not hesitate to talk to a teacher if I think my child should have received a higher grade than they got.

DISAGREE AGREE

13. It’s important for me to know who my child is with at all times.

DISAGREE AGREE

14. My child’s success or failure says a lot about me and my performance as a parent.

DISAGREE AGREE

15. If my child were having trouble with a professor in college, I would call a dean to talk about it.

DISAGREE AGREE

16. I have called a school or league to request that my child is placed with a specific teacher or coach.

DISAGREE AGREE

17. When my child is out at night, they need to check in with me regularly.

DISAGREE AGREE

18. It’s important for me to know what my child is doing at all times.

DISAGREE AGREE

19. When I can step in to solve my child’s problem, I feel like I’ve done my job as a parent.

DISAGREE AGREE

20. I’m not sure my child could succeed in school without my involvement.

DISAGREE AGREE