Authoritative Parenting

A parent’s approach to raising kids can have a major effect on their children’s lives—and their own well-being. Understanding your parenting style, and being open to some adjustments, could benefit the entire family. See where you land on the continuum.

1. When my child has a tantrum, I usually give them what they want.

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2. I don’t allow my child to interrupt me when I’m speaking.

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3. My child does not get whatever they ask for.

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4. I feel confident about setting rules for my child.

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5. Children should be praised only when they put forth their best effort.

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6. My kids have clear limits on their screen time.

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7. I want my child to speak up if they have questions about my rules.

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8. I know the names of most of my child’s friends.

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9. I explain to my children why we have certain household rules.

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10. I trust my child to make the right choices without any help from me.

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11. I’m comfortable saying no to my child.

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12. When I tell my child they will be punished, I follow through.

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13. I will not bribe my child to get them to do what I want.

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14. It’s important to set firm boundaries with a child.

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15. There are more important things than my child always being happy.

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16. I am my child’s parent, not their friend.

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17. I encourage my child to express themselves even if they disagree with me.

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18. I talk to my child about the consequences of their actions.

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19. I worry that if I discipline my child too much, they won’t like me.

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20. It’s important to me that my child learns to be independent.

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