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✓ 20 QUESTIONS ⏱ ~3 MINUTES

Are You a Flirt? — Women

There are five flirting styles: physical, playful, polite, sincere, and traditional. Physical flirts use body language; playful flirts think it’s a game; polite flirts are cautious; sincere flirts look for authentic connection; and traditional flirts rely on conventional gender roles. See where you fall on this flirting personality scale.

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1. I can tell if the person I’m flirting with is interested.

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2. I smile when I flirt.

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3. When flirting, I often toss my hair.

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4. I find myself laughing when I flirt.

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5. When flirting, I make more eye contact than in a usual conversation.

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6. Others often don’t realize when I am trying to flirt with them.

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7. I ask people questions about themselves to draw them out in conversation.

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8. I frequently touch the person I’m flirting with in some way, such as on the arm.

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9. I find myself speaking in softer tones when flirting.

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10. Others would say I’m cheerful when I flirt.

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11. I withhold some information about myself when I’m flirting.

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12. Flirting makes me feel anxious.

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13. If the other person is not interested in me, I don’t get upset.

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14. I enjoy witty banter when flirting.

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15. I make it clear if I have a romantic interest in the other person.

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16. I try to find out what I have in common with the other person when flirting.

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17. I genuinely enjoy learning about the other person’s interests.

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18. I often tilt my head to the side during flirtatious conversations.

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19. I try to keep a presentable appearance if I’m in a flirty situation.

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20. A little mystery never hurt a flirty conversation.

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