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✓ 20 QUESTIONS ⏱ ~3 MINUTES

Are You a Flirt? — Men

There are five flirting styles: physical, playful, polite, sincere, and traditional. Physical flirts use body language; playful flirts think it’s a game; polite flirts are cautious; sincere flirts look for authentic connection; and traditional flirts rely on conventional gender roles. See where you fall on this flirting personality scale.

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1. I can tell if the person I’m flirting with is interested.

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2. I often find myself laughing when I flirt.

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3. When flirting, I typically make more eye contact than usual.

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4. I focus on the quality of the conversation when flirting.

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5. I compliment the person with whom I’m flirting.

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6. I ask follow-up questions in flirtatious conversations.

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7. I’m not afraid to directly ask the person I’m flirting with for a date.

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8. When flirting, I nod along to what the other person is saying, rather than interrupting.

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9. Others would say I’m not too aggressive when I flirt.

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10. I try to be humble when I’m flirting.

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11. I find myself maintaining an upright posture when in a flirtatious conversation.

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12. I withhold some information about myself if I’m flirting.

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13. Flirting makes me feel anxious.

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14. If the other person is not interested in me, I don’t get upset.

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15. I enjoy witty banter when flirting.

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16. I make clear that I have a romantic interest in the other person.

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17. I try to find what I have in common with the other person.

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18. I genuinely enjoy learning about the other person’s interests.

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19. I try not to move too fast when flirting with someone.

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20. I don’t give up on a conversation if it hits a lull.

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